From the beginning, God is teaching us the power of relationship. The fruit is a result of a relationship. Fruit does not grow overnight, but over time as the relationship between the branch and the tree continues. Some relationships are only to teach, test us and others to help us reach our God-given destiny. Jesus started His mission by building a relationship with a few guys He chose. Jesus knew why Judas was there, to bring Him to the cross and fulfill the Father´s will so we might be saved. Disappointments come when we have placed our expectations on someone who failed to meet them. When we receive the Holy Spirit we also receive various spiritual gifts. Gifts tell us how much God loves us. But the Holy Spirit also has fruit and the fruit is the evidence that we love God. Three different categories of people we have a relationship with. Constituents are for what you are for, they have a common goal. Comrades are against what you are against. But Confidant is someone you share secrets with. We must know into whom we pour ourselves into. We are commanded to love all people, but not to trust people.